How To Be Affectionate With Your Girlfriend

Over the years a lot of things keep changing and it might be the same between you and your girlfriend.

So if things aren’t the same as they were before, it’s time you realize how to become affectionate with her before she decides to dump you.

You don’t know what happened?

It might seem like only yesterday everything was things were absolutely fine, but now she just doesn’t care much about the relationship.

Perhaps you have read a lot or heard many such suggestions, love advice on TV and even the internet to understand that if a woman is given the affection she rightfully needs or when the wrong kind is given, it won’t be long before she falls out of love with you.

In order to stop this from occurring, learn the difference between giving her affection that she requires and giving affection that’s wrong.

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Woman truly needs affection from her man but it isn’t as complicated as it might seem.

You simply need to pay a little more attention when she speaks and provide or contribute to the conversation.

For example, think of positive feedback that can indeed work wonders for her.

If she wishes to talk to you at a time when you are reading the paper, put that down and listen to what she has to say.

If you ignore her, she will feel bored and feel like moving on.

In case you are facing a problem at work or in any other zone of life or simply bogged down with a lot of work at home, talk it out freely with her, keep her in the loop.

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No matter what, she needs to feel needed. At the time of talking with her, maintain eye contact and keep touching her hand or arm.

This develops better connection while the conversation continues.

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Besides these, hold her hands when you travel with her or whatever you are doing, try to brush her hair before you hit the bed or simply surprise her by sending random gifts like flowers for no reason.

Surprise her by slipping a small card or note inside her lunch bag that states how much you are in love with her.

Affection doesn’t necessarily imply you have to make a grand gesture on your part or even her part.

Simple things like a touch, a smile when returns home, asking her how the day went, helping her with household chores, cooking her favorite dinner, doing those dishes afterwards and letting her relax makes her feel good.

There can be other things she likes, so offer to do those too.

Wrong affection is when you do things with just yourself in mind and not taking her feelings into consideration.

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Like you can just come behind her in the kitchen and instead of doing wrapping your arms around her, giving her a small peck or complimenting on how good she smells, you reach for an ‘intimate’, ‘unquestionable’ part of hers that she feels weird.

And that’s not sexy or playful, for it makes her feel degraded and humiliated.

So if you are ready for a stay in the doghouse at night, go ahead.

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Analyze your relationship and see how you can be affectionate towards your girlfriend, so that you incorporate some necessary changes if needed.

If you do not find anything that needs change, then ask her if anything can be done differently.


Simon is extremely passionate about helping couples succeed in their relationships and strongly believes that healthy relationships breeds better society. So he created this blog to pursue his passion.

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